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The Power of Mentorship

How a Coach Can Shape Your Leadership Journey

— Written in partnership with Tina Martin at Ideaspired.com

Leadership isn’t something you wake up with one morning, fully formed and polished. It’s built over time—through experience, observation, and, most importantly, guidance. That’s where mentors and coaches come in. If you’re serious about becoming a strong, capable leader, finding someone who has already walked that path can make all the difference. Sure, you can read all the books, watch all the TED Talks, and listen to every leadership podcast out there, but nothing replaces the value of real-time, personalized feedback from someone who has been in the trenches.

Get A Mirror That Reflects the Truth

One of the hardest things about growth is seeing yourself. A good mentor acts like a mirror, reflecting your strengths and the blind spots you don’t even realize you have. Maybe you think you’re an excellent communicator, but your emails confuse your team. Perhaps you believe you’re decisive, but your hesitation in high-stakes moments says otherwise. A mentor will call you out on these things—not to tear you down, but to help you build yourself up. Leadership requires self-awareness, and sometimes, you need an outside perspective to get there.

Learn from Real-World Experience, Not Just Theory

There’s a reason why the best leaders aren’t just textbook experts—they’ve lived through challenges, failures, and high-pressure moments that shaped them. When you work with a mentor or coach, you gain access to their hard-earned wisdom. They’ll share stories of mistakes they made so you can avoid them. They’ll tell you what worked for them and what didn’t, offering insights you won’t find in a leadership manual. Theoretical knowledge is excellent, but practical wisdom? That’s priceless.

Benefit from Accountability That Keeps You Honest

Let’s be real: self-improvement can be tough. It’s easy to set ambitious leadership goals and then quietly let them slide when life gets busy. A mentor keeps you accountable. They check in, push you when needed, and remind you why you started in the first place. Without accountability, leadership development can become a vague aspiration rather than a structured journey. Having someone invested in your progress ensures that you don’t just talk about growing—you do it.

Navigate Challenges with Confidence

Every leader faces moments of uncertainty. Maybe you’re dealing with a problematic employee, making a tough business decision, or struggling with impostor syndrome. During these moments, having a mentor or coach can be a game-changer. Instead of second-guessing yourself or making a rash decision, you have someone to turn to—someone who has likely faced a similar challenge. That reassurance can make all the difference between leading with confidence and doubt.

Expand Your Network and Opportunities

The right mentor doesn’t just help you grow—they also open doors. Leadership isn’t just about what you know; it’s also about who you know. A seasoned coach or mentor has an established network and can introduce you to people, opportunities, and resources you wouldn’t have access to. If you want to advance in your career, having someone advocate for you and connect you to the right circles can be a decisive advantage.

Develop Your Unique Leadership Style

A common mistake aspiring leaders make is mimicking someone else’s leadership style. While learning from others is excellent, authentic leadership comes from authenticity. A mentor helps you refine your own approach rather than forcing you into a mold that doesn’t fit. They’ll challenge you to lead in a way that aligns with your values, strengths, and personality. The best leaders aren’t carbon copies of their predecessors—they’re originals who bring their unique perspective.

Consider Higher Learning

If you’re serious about building your leadership skills, learning to succeed in business by earning an online degree can be a game-changer. You will sharpen your understanding of strategy, communication, and decision-making and develop the critical thinking and problem-solving abilities that define great leaders. Online degree programs make it easy to balance your education with your career, allowing you to gain real-world leadership experience while advancing your knowledge at the same time. Whether you’re looking to step into a management role or refine the skills you already have, investing in your education is one of the smartest moves you can make.

Leadership is a journey, not a destination. No one becomes a great leader overnight, and it does not happen alone. A mentor or coach can provide the insight, accountability, and guidance needed to accelerate your growth and help you become the leader you’re meant to be.

Contact us to transform your key contributors into collaborative change agents today! Learn to mentor and become an executive coach with Hervé.

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“More than education, more than experience, more than training, a person’s level of resilience will determine who succeeds and who fails. That’s true in the cancer ward, it’s true in the Olympics, and it’s true in the boardroom.” — Dean Becker, president, and CEO of Adaptive Learning Systems.

Resilience can be learned. I recently read an excellent article from Harvard Business Review: “How Resilience Works,” by Diane Coutu, director of client communications at Banyan Family Business Advisors, headquartered in Cambridge, Massachusetts, which introduces 3 characteristics that may reinforce this:

  • Face and accept reality:  Resilient people have down-to-earth views that matter for survival. Pushing for a sense of possibility is powerful, but for longer or bigger challenges, a grounded sense of reality is far more important. Ask yourself: “Do I truly understand—and accept—the reality of my situation? Does my organization?”

  • Search for meaning:  Reframing your situation and seeking a deeper meaning to what is happening can mean the difference between giving up and hanging in there, believing in a better-constructed future. The reference book on this matter is Viktor Frankl’s book Man’s Search for Meaning. I encourage you to spend time clarifying your personal purpose and that of your company’s.

  • Become a bricoleur: Keep bouncing back by doing the most with what you have. You may need to improvise solutions from thin air. This calls for agility, positivity, and enthusiasm.

Are you facing serious transformational challenges in your company? If you are, simply drop me a line at sky@herve.com.

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